The New Wave of Kinky Online Dating and Live Interaction
Reading Time: 2minutes While venturing into emotional hell for a romp with an ex or taking home a creeper who likes bitch drinks and Nickleback sounds tempting, sex dating sites can offer you the pleasure you’re looking for without all the drama.
There’s nothing like a good lay to put you in a better mood, but what do you do if you’re single and don’t have a booty call lined up? Deal with it and start buying batteries in bulk? Head to the bar and take home the first person to check out your butt and buy you a drink? Call your ex?
While venturing into emotional hell for a romp with an ex or taking home a creeper who likes bitch drinks and Nickleback sounds tempting, sex dating sites can offer you the pleasure you’re looking for without all the drama.
If you’re new to the adult dating scene, these tips can help you get started:
Choose a Site
There are tons of adult dating sites to choose from, so pick a well-known one with lots of members, and great features to help you find what you’re looking for. AdultFriendFinder.com for example has over 65 million members, so you’re almost guaranteed to find someone you’re interested in. Whether you’re looking for a friend with benefits, threesomes, or even group sex, you’ll find it there. The site also has advanced search tools so you can find members based on what you like whether it’s a certain race, body type, eye color, or fetish.
Make a Sexy Profile
A sexy, inviting member profile is the best way to capture the attention of someone you’d like to spend some quality time with. Take this opportunity to show off your personality. Be specific about what you want/don’t want, and don’t forget to post some sexy photos while you’re at it. If you’re trying to be discreet and don’t want to show your face, pics of your favorite features (eyes, cleavage, lower back etc…) work well too.
Flirt
Take advantage of features like instant messenger, blogs, and photo sharing to get to know fellow members and see if you have a connection before you meet up. Adult FriendFinder even offers a cam-to-cam feature so members can enjoy a little mutual playtime.
Know What You Want
Be upfront about your boundaries from the beginning and don’t hesitate to say no if someone makes you a proposition you’re not interested in. Remember, you are in control of your experience and you can make it anything you want it to be.
Coleen is a writer, photographer and film maker at Wasteland and Sssh.com.
Here at BDSMCafe.com, she is editor and curator of this comprehensive library of BDSM fiction, informational articles and other educational features that date back to the early days of the internet in 1996 when the site was first launched.
