From A Discussion At Chastity Mansion
Below you will find a copy of our most recent contract, literally just finished this weekend. It is by no means an end all contract but it was important to both of us (My Wife and I) to keep some of the vanilla elements in here until we can establish a longer term arrangement.
Enjoy and feel free to use any part of this for your needs.
Chastity Contract
Definitions
CHASTITY BELT Any lockable wearable device designed for continuous wear to prevent masturbation, infidelity, control sexual urges or aggression, or sexual intercourse.
USER The individual who will wear the device, hereafter referred to as the HUSBAND. By definition the HUSBAND has granted the control of his sexual organs and services to the KEYHOLDER.
KEYHOLDER The individual who will hold the key and the control for the device, hereafter referred to as the WIFE. By definition, the WIFE is the individual entrusted to have absolute say in the use of the users sexual organs and services.
Term
Husband will wear said device for a period determined by Wife.
Hygiene
Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
Husband will notify the Wife immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
The Wife will permit at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.
Husband agrees that such release may be supervised and agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Wife, including restraints if deemed necessary.
Husband agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair.
Husband agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings.
Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual releases are permitted and husband agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.
Keys
Wife will retain all keys to said device.
Wife will carry one key on her person at all times.
Husband will not attempt to defeat the device in any way.
Wife will make one emergency key available to Husband for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Husband.
Husband agrees that in such emergency he will notify Wife immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
Husband agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Husband will re-secure device immediately and notify Wife of said action.
Sexual Release
Wife agrees that husband will be entitled to at least three releases in any sixty-day period. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than 24 hours.
Wife is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out. At least two of the three releases will be by means of sexual intercourse.
Husband acknowledges and agrees that Wife has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Wife do not constitute a release for Husband.
Husband agrees to satisfy Wife by whatever means Wife deems necessary for sexual gratification.
Husband agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Wife.
Husband agrees that Wife may release husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Wife permits one.
Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ons, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Wife.
Husband agrees that Wife may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Wife to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)
Non-Sexual Releases
Husband agrees that Wife may release Husband out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
Husband agrees to abide by all directions from Wife during such releases.
Husband agrees to re-secure device upon command from Wife.
Attire
Husband agrees that Wife may require certain clothing to be worn by Husband, including but not limited to feminine clothing such as heels, hosiery, and other items. In such cases Husband agrees to follow directives as set forth by Wife.
Wife agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would cause public humiliation for Husband.
Husband acknowledges that Wife may adorn herself in various clothing to tease and/or torment Husband and that Husband is not entitled to a sexual release because of such adornment.
General Understandings
Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.
Husband agrees and understands that Wife may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Further more, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Wife may continue at will.
Wife understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from Husband during periods of confinement.
Husband is aware that rewards up to and including sexual release are given for good behavior including but not limited to pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other ideas Husband comes up with.
Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement.
Penalties and Punishments
Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.
Breach of contract by Wife will constitute a cancellation of contract.
Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device.
Breach of contract by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Wife as outlined below.
Unauthorized removal of device will result in a thirty-day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period.
Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a forty-five day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Wife
Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Wife to correct or punish infractions from contract.
Husband agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behavior on part of Wife.
Wife Signature____________________________________Date_ _______________
Husband Signature_________________________________Date____ ____________
Upon signing of contract Husband is to immediately secure said device and hand over keys to Wife. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.