Sex is fun, there’s no objection to that. But why? Why does it make us feel good and satisfied all the time? Why do we think about it especially during chilly nights? First off, let’s define what “sex” is.
According to Merriam-Webster, sex, or sexual intercourse is the heterosexual intercourse which involves the penetration of the vagina by the penis. But as time goes by, people started to explore their bodies and other sexual possibilities arose. There’s now anal and oral sex, which is more frequently happening especially during a person’s adolescent years since it’s much less risky than the usual sexual intercourse involving vaginal penetration.
Just the thought of having sex is very interesting. What makes it so fun, you ask? Well, a lot is because of the physical effects and emotional benefits as well. When you feel aroused, the connected nerves and muscles in your body work together in harmony therefore making you anticipate the feeling of sex before it even begins. The nerve endings in you vagina (or penis) gets even more sensitive even to the slightest movements, thus making you feel some tickly and satisfying sensations, which explains why some people hump pillows and stuffed animals in order to have an orgasm.
But what makes sex even better?
The health benefits of course! There is no other way you can sweat out while having fun at the same time, am I right? With sex, the benefits are endless! Here are some:
- Boosts your immune system – yes, sex is good for you! Just like other physical exercise, having sex means your body engages in movements which works out your heart, making it seem like you just had a cardio workout. Also, antibodies which protects you from viruses and germs are being released when having sex, making you more immune to common illnesses.
- Sex improves sleep – what’s the next thing better than sex? Sleep. Especially after the Big “O”, you might feel sleepy and tired, this is because of a hormone called “prolactin”. It makes you feel relaxed and calm, so no surprise if you immediately doze off after a fantastic sex session with your partner.
- Makes you feel more confident – especially in today’s society where people are quick to judge based only on what they see on the outside, sex will instantly boost your self-esteem and confidence. It surely feels good when you have sex with someone who will gladly accept your bodily flaws and will excitingly join you in all your sexual pleasure, even if they are naughty!
- Lowers stress levels – oh, how satisfying sex can be! There’s no other way to end a long day than being with your loved one and having some steamy hot sex while doing the crazy stuff you’ve always dreamed of. Having sex when you are stressed helps improve your overall mood and helps you release unwanted toxins in your body, thus lowering your stress levels.
- Improves your mood – ever heard of the term “after-sex glow”? This is common most especially to women. This simply means people who have sex frequently and consistently gives off that fresh and calm mood all throughout. Sex simply makes you feel good. And when you feel good, you look good. Sex really does wonders to your body!
Now that we’ve pretty much laid out what sex is all about, let’s jump right in to the more exciting stuff.
What makes sex so fun?
We can actually go on and on and enumerate endless reasons why sex if so fun, but let’s cut right through and just focus on 5.
- The Orgasm – oh, the Big O. Majestic and wonderful, you can’t even explain how it feels! Just the feeling of being satisfied, you release all the bodily tension that you have, and then BOOM! Your pelvic muscles contract while you feel a sudden surge of sexual pleasure that you can’t put into words. Just the thought of having an orgasm itself is already thrilling, what more when you add the foreplay, kissing, humping, and more?
- Sex is easy to find – now that we are all our phones and gadgets all the time, finding someone to have sex with is very easy with just a few clicks and swipes. Classified ads sites such as OhMy Canada lets you find casual sex partners. Dating apps and websites are also readily available on the web.
- BDSM – so you have some fantasies that you are quite afraid to share with others? This is where BDSM comes in. When you have found someone who have just the same interest as you with regards to sex, you can finally fulfill all those crazy and kinky stuff that you have been thinking about. Having the right sex partner will let you explore different kinks and sexual roles hen in bed or during foreplay.
- Sex is natural – our human bodies are designed for sex. Come on, even animals do it, so why not? Sex is a natural phenomenon that is made to be enjoyed by all beings, especially people. It’s basically a necessity for all of us, which explain why we feel aroused at random moments.
- It simply feels great – why is the sun scorching hot? Why is the sky blue? Why did the chicken cross the road? There are some things that don’t even need an explanation. Sex is one of those. Sex is fun. Don’t even question it! Sex feels good when done properly and with the right person. You wouldn’t have sex with someone who does not stimulate and satisfy you, right? And much better, you can even have sex with yourself using toys!
That’s the beauty of sex. You can have it and have fun with it while enjoying health benefits at the same time. No wonder more and more people are engaging in casual sex as time goes by. People have sex for procreation, some just for fun, and either way is good. Just make sure to enjoy and feel the pleasure!
