Reading Time: 4 minutes By Rachel Kramer Bussel “Do you have sex with your glasses on?” my friend Lex asked me at a party recently. I laughed before answering; I most definitely remove my specs before even kissing; they’re …
Reading Time: < 1 minute This part of the resources section is for anyone getting ready to take their first bite of the forbidden fruit. The world of bdsm can at times seem a bit scary, or silly, at first …
Reading Time: 7 minutes By Clarissa Thorne A lot of us kinksters use vocabulary similar to the kind of thing people are accustomed to hearing from LGBTQ folks. “Coming out” is a great example of this: a lot of …
Reading Time: 5 minutes BDSM and a Vanilla partner (essay by Nala) BDSM is a part of me, therefore a part of my life. It’s just a part, not my whole life, but it is a part deep inside. …
Reading Time: 5 minutes While fetish fashions like leather corsets and collars are fairly common in mainstream culture, BDSM — the subculture that created these fashions — remains a mystery to most people. Our reader questions range from “Doesn’t …
Reading Time: 23 minutes This part of the resources section is for anyone getting ready to take their first bite of the forbidden fruit. The world of bdsm can at times seem a bit scary, or silly, at first …
