A very old, but tried and true set of values and rights for submissives……

  • i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
  • i have the right to trust, providing I have earned it.
  • i have the right to expect You to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
  • i have the right to ask for Your attention,without having to misbehave to get it.
  • i have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.
  • i have the right to question your motives,should You deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
  • i have the right to speak up if I feel O/our relationship is not giving me what I need.
  • i have the right to tell You what I need in a respectful manner.
  • i have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
  • i have the right to walk away from our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
  • i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what I desire.
  • i have the right to ask You for that tenderness if I’ve had a bad day,or if I just feel the need for closeness, I understand that there will be times when You and I will disagree about this ~when You will want a scene and I will not.
  • i have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen to and consider my reasonings, I expect You to have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings,whatever they may happen to be.
  • i have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and i expect You not to repel me if i tell You that i love You. For my Master i will love You, should O/our relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.
  • i have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You do not feel You can return those feelings, so that i may decide what i want and need,For it is Your pleasure that adds to my own, and makes it real, And mine, that adds to Yours!
  • The Slaves Prayer….
  • Allow me the strength to answer questions I can’t fanthom…
  • Allow me the spirit to know his needs
  • Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts
  • Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace..
  • Allow me the love to show Him in peace…
  • Allow me the tenderness to comfort Him…
  • Allow me the light to show us the way…
  • Allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Him…
  • Let me be able to show Him each day my love by my service to Him…
  • Let me open myself up to completely belong to him…
  • Let my eyes show Him each day my love by my service to Him…
  • Let me open myself up to completely belong to him…
  • Let my eyes show Him the same respect, rather I sit at his side, or kneel at his feet…
  • Let me accept my punishment with the grace of a woman…
  • Let me learn to please Him, beyond myself…
  • Grant me the power to give myself to Him completely…
  • Give me the strength to please us both…
  • Permitt me to love myself, in loving Him..
  • Allow me the peace of serving Him.
  • For it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make his life complete, as he makes mine.