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Reading Time: 2 minutes Sure, inflicting and enduring a considerable amount of pain is one of the most popular segments of BDSM, but it’s undoubtedly not the only one.

Reading Time: 18 minutes She gasped with delight as she lowered her head to behold the vision between her thighs. Such a handsome young man. The fair-haired crown of his head rose and fell rapidly in unison with the soft, moist touch attending her pleasure.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Bukkake (most commonly, the practice of a group of men ejaculating on a woman) is an ancient Japanese tradition, its true origins lost to the sands of time. There are two conflicting versions of the origin of Bukkake. Let’s take a look at both…

Reading Time: 4 minutes As BDSM continued to grow in underground popularity starting in the 1960’s, film directors took note of this and began creating Bondage movies for theatrical release in “Blue Cinemas” around the US and Europe.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Picking the right location is key, especially if you want to relax and enjoy yourself. Find a place that has minimal lighting, limited foot traffic, and an easy escape route should you inadvertently find yourself putting on a live sex show for unsuspecting passersby.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Some of the earliest references to BDSM date back as far as 2250 B.C. The academic historian and archaeologist Anne Nomis identified BDSM in ancient Sumerian texts about rituals to the Goddess Inanna. Nomis points to ancient writings such as the Hymn to Inanna, which mentions rituals of domination, cross-dressing, altered states of consciousness, punishment, moaning, and ecstasy.

Reading Time: 2 minutes While venturing into emotional hell for a romp with an ex or taking home a creeper who likes bitch drinks and Nickleback sounds tempting, sex dating sites can offer you the pleasure you’re looking for without all the drama.

Reading Time: 2 minutes You can get cardboard VR headsets for a few dollars, but for $30 you can get a pretty good quality plastic one on Amazon

Reading Time: 2 minutes Did you know that you can buy porn memberships with gift cards? Walmart, Target, Starbucks, Best Buy, etc – you name it.

Reading Time: 2 minutes In her book, “Darklady’s Carnal Archives and Mesmerizing Hate Mail”, Darklady literally knocks it out of the park with the collection of past writings, combined with fiction, excellent quotes, personal confessions and (my favorite part at times), hate mail from people that read something she wrote and pushed back on her with moral outrage!

Reading Time: < 1 minute In conjunction with Wasteland, the web’s oldest and largest bdsm and kinky movie site, we’ve added a new section here at bdsmcafe.com – Movie Trailers! Each one is a little work of art, and each …

Reading Time: 25 minutes Fly with me, my Black Swan! – An Erotic novel with autobiographical elements by Edyta Zaborowska [ed.  The following story is chapter 1 from the new Erotic Novel by Edyta Zaborowska.  Enjoy the read, and learn …

Reading Time: 5 minutes I have been into latex since I was a kid. From the time I put the first rubber dive suit on GI Joe and fantasized about how wonderful it would be to be all dressed in that tight fitting rubber suit.

Reading Time: 15 minutes Rick Umbaugh has been practicing S/m since 1968. He joined the organized scene in 1976 when he became a member of The Eulenspeigle Society (TES) where he was mentored by the late Master Jack. He has been an actor and playwright longer than that, but became a professional in 1972 when he made his first movie. He has appeared in such varied fare as “Taxi Driver,” “Cotton Club,” the new “Thomas Crowne Affair” and the TV show, “Law and Order.”

Reading Time: 12 minutes Dr. John Warren has been in the Scene for over 30 years. He is an educator and lecturer in the Scene and the author of five books: The Loving Dominant, Torquemada Killer, Safe Sane and Consensual, Murder at Roissy and The Brat. He is the founder of Boston Dungeon Society and the manager of Diversified Services, which offers a variety of BDSM oriented toys, books and other products.

Reading Time: 5 minutes The last natural blonde will die out within 200 years, scientists believe. A recent study by experts in Germany suggests people with blonde hair are an endangered species and will become extinct by 2202. Researchers predict the last truly natural blonde will be born in Finland – the country with the highest proportion of blondes.

Reading Time: 4 minutes OUCH ! a brief introduction to spanking Spanking is a hugely popular fetish. Its legions of fans include those who enjoy the undoubted D/s aspects of it as well as those who simply like the …

Reading Time: 11 minutes A Cynics Guide to Online Chat ( how to do it and survive ). A non-too serious primer for the bewildered on the pleasures and pitfalls of online chat
[ed. this article goes way back to around 1997, so the technology is very archaic, but it’s funny enough that we keep it live for posterity!)

Reading Time: 3 minutes It may be hard to come out and admit to your friends that you like spanking or bondage now, but what was it like 100 years ago? The ideas of our victorian forebears about sex seem a little eccentric .. not to say barking mad at times. Amazingly enough, the extracts on this page are all genuine exchanges between worried Victorians and their ‘enlightened doctors…

Reading Time: 5 minutes 3pm: I wake bright and early and greet the new day with enthusiasm. I stretch lazily, made almost seasick by the extravagently rippling undulations of my impressive muscles, and slip into my comfortable leather mask and trousers which belle has already buffed to a fine sheen with her long auburn hair. I then take my usual morning areobic exercise by spanking belle briskly for at least 20 minutes…