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Reading Time: 2 minutes Did you know that you can buy porn memberships with gift cards? Walmart, Target, Starbucks, Best Buy, etc – you name it.

Reading Time: 5 minutes A fellow writer and sexual adventurer, David Steinberg, recently sent me his latest collection of sexual photography. Unlike so many books which languish while I finish the mystery novel under my pillow, I dove right in. After all, photo books are irresistible, from the seductive intimacy on the cover to whatever delights lurk inside.

Reading Time: 4 minutes A while back I discovered an article about BDSM and Spirituality called The Art of S/m by Rick Umbaugh. I was amazed that someone was writing about this, a topic which is nearly a non-issue on the national tabletop. I have been writing about these two subjects for several years, but always separately.

Reading Time: 5 minutes BDSM Essay – The Nature of Sadism and the Sadism of My Nature by Sensuous Sadie. One night my Submissive, Moby, knelt before me in that position some call the slave position: knees spread wide, …

Reading Time: 5 minutes If I had a nickel for every Submissive who hit on me, I could open my own dungeon. The real bummer about the whole thing is that I’m submissive myself. Oh sure, I top now and then, but when it comes down to it, my D/s orientation is submissive.

Reading Time: 14 minutes Worldwide, religion and the state have always sought to control people through laws which interfered with their sexuality. The romantic antics which gave our forefathers apoplexy seem tame now, and we can be sure that …

Reading Time: 6 minutes This article originally was printed by The Network la Red, a Survivor-led Organizing to End Partner Abuse What is BD/SM? SM is the generally accepted umbrella term for a broad group of behaviors that include …

Reading Time: 6 minutes By Morgan on The Dominant Guide Seriously, a Dungeon? The word has a lovely, dark, evocative feel, doesn’t it? “Dungeon” is a term you’ll hear a lot in BDSM circles. And they can be dark …

Reading Time: 5 minutes From A Discussion At Chastity Mansion Below you will find a copy of our most recent contract, literally just finished this weekend. It is by no means an end all contract but it was important …

Reading Time: 4 minutes By Bea Amor at Yahoo Voices Etiquette and Rules at a BDSM Play Party. The Top 10 You are going to your first play party and you are terrified, excited and a little apprehensive. It …

Reading Time: 5 minutes by Sir Viktor at DomsubFriends Scene Questionnaire For BDSM Activities The following is a list of activities in the BDSM scene. It can be used by both the Dominant (male or female) and the Submissive …

Reading Time: 5 minutes From The Wizdomme Infopack Contracts can define roles and expectations, and can be great fun to write. These examples are here only to provide suggestions and guidelines. If you and your partner wish to have …

Reading Time: 3 minutes From the WizDomme Informational Guide Contracts can define roles and expectations, and can be great fun to write. These examples are here only to provide suggestions and guidelines. If you and your partner wish to …

Reading Time: < 1 minute A contract in this context is an agreement which formally sets out the roles, responsibilities and limits of a Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationship. Some find them useful because they demand thought about what each person …

Reading Time: 5 minutes By Ann Giudici Fettner From Scientists and Community Groups Take Sides in a Debate How safe is unprotected oral sex? It depends on whom you ask. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control (CDC) continues to …

Reading Time: 46 minutes Originally printed at sexuality.org in 1996 1. Introduction 1.1 Goal The goal of this guide is to give people of all genders, orientations, and preferences the information they need to perform a wide variety of …

Reading Time: 7 minutes By Joey W. Hill There is a growing interest in bondage in the bedroom, and many of my readers are giving it a try in an effort to spice up their sex lives. It’s fun …

Reading Time: 2 minutes This article originally appeared at DomSubFriends.com The key difference between S&M and Abuse, is “consent”. * Consent = Is an agreed approval of what is done and/or proposed by another. * Abuse = to use …

Reading Time: 14 minutes This Article originally appeared on the Wizdomme Pages D/s Help & Info: The “Newbie Pack” Cold’s Story,  by Cold as Ice1 Some of you know me personally, some only through the computer. Some of you may …

Reading Time: 12 minutes This Article Originally Appeared at Sexuality.org This document was the work of many dedicated volunteers. They deserve to be properly recognised, so you are free to use it on the condition that you print, post, …