Posts tagged BDSM Essays

Reading Time: 6 minutes  5 Tips For Your First BDSM Play You’ve seen BDSM plays on the big screen or maybe read them in magazines or articles online. Perhaps, you’ve even watched some videos about it. But don’t get …

Reading Time: 3 minutes People still consider unusual sexual practices such as BDSM a perversion and frown upon those, who support them. But there’s nothing wrong with spicing up intimate life – it’s absolutely natural. A lot of couples try …

Reading Time: 2 minutes With the unprecedented popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey, so many people are wondering what BDSM is actually like in real life, which is why we’d like to debunk the top 5 myths surrounding this community.

Reading Time: 3 minutes The rise of the Internet the world of BDSM finally got an opportunity to gain more followers or convert BDSM curious peeps into the true supporters of the lifestyle. Her’s how…

Reading Time: 3 minutes Compared to the vulnerability that appears in regular, vanilla relationships, this term gets a whole other meaning in BDSM

Reading Time: 2 minutes Before actually committing a sexual S&M act, one must know how to properly go through foreplay first. In that name, here are our picks for the top 12 methods of preparing for an sadomasochistic session with your partner.

Reading Time: 2 minutes For many years, lifestyle BDSM couples and groups have built elaborate dungeons and play spaces, created complex furniture and rigging, and invested in high quality gear and toys. In recent years, there has been a trend of more and more BDSM couples starting their own film production studios, and doing scenes for professional film companies. This has resulted in a deeper visual texture in many BDSM movies which capture the energy and chemistry with higher production values.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Some of the earliest references to BDSM date back as far as 2250 B.C. The academic historian and archaeologist Anne Nomis identified BDSM in ancient Sumerian texts about rituals to the Goddess Inanna. Nomis points to ancient writings such as the Hymn to Inanna, which mentions rituals of domination, cross-dressing, altered states of consciousness, punishment, moaning, and ecstasy.

Reading Time: 2 minutes Did you know that you can buy porn memberships with gift cards? Walmart, Target, Starbucks, Best Buy, etc – you name it.

Reading Time: 5 minutes A fellow writer and sexual adventurer, David Steinberg, recently sent me his latest collection of sexual photography. Unlike so many books which languish while I finish the mystery novel under my pillow, I dove right in. After all, photo books are irresistible, from the seductive intimacy on the cover to whatever delights lurk inside.

Reading Time: 4 minutes A while back I discovered an article about BDSM and Spirituality called The Art of S/m by Rick Umbaugh. I was amazed that someone was writing about this, a topic which is nearly a non-issue on the national tabletop. I have been writing about these two subjects for several years, but always separately.

Reading Time: 5 minutes BDSM Essay – The Nature of Sadism and the Sadism of My Nature by Sensuous Sadie. One night my Submissive, Moby, knelt before me in that position some call the slave position: knees spread wide, …

Reading Time: 5 minutes If I had a nickel for every Submissive who hit on me, I could open my own dungeon. The real bummer about the whole thing is that I’m submissive myself. Oh sure, I top now and then, but when it comes down to it, my D/s orientation is submissive.