BDSM Safety is of the UTMOST importance! Exciting though BDSM can be, it is certainly not without both physical and psychological risks. Because there is so often a sexual component you need to be aware of safe-sex issues. You also need to be aware that anything which causes pain has the potential to cause damage unless you exercise proper care and know what you’re doing. People sometimes bring to bdsm unresolved issues from previous emotional trauma which can cause unpredictable and sometimes scary results during deep mind games. Its best to be informed and to play safe. To help you do that, there is information about safe play in our own ‘illustrated guide to bdsm’. In addition, we’ve collected some other useful links on this page which will help you find out more about how to play safely and what to do if things go wrong. Good luck and be safe.
In the words of one Dominant:
There is a creed we are suppose to live by, we are looked up to not only for comfort , not only for guidance , not only for love, not only for structure , not only for companionship , not only for communication , not only for the rules , not only for the kink. We are suppose to be their for ours 24/7 no questions asked.
A Slave does not ask for much , most Slaves are content with just being loved and cared for. Our creed we live up to our responsibility’s . We have to show we are who we say we are. We as Dominants have much more to prove , than the Slave does.
