Reading Time: 4 minutes OUCH ! a brief introduction to spanking Spanking is a hugely popular fetish. Its legions of fans include those who enjoy the undoubted D/s aspects of it as well as those who simply like the …
Reading Time: 11 minutes A Cynics Guide to Online Chat ( how to do it and survive ). A non-too serious primer for the bewildered on the pleasures and pitfalls of online chat
[ed. this article goes way back to around 1997, so the technology is very archaic, but it’s funny enough that we keep it live for posterity!)
Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jahaan Martin This Article Originally Appeared At Lalechleague.org. Reprinted here with permission Egyptian Pharaoh Akhenaton, Roman Centurions and some Victorian society women have a striking connection with many mothers of today. The tie that …
Reading Time: 3 minutes A very old, but tried and true set of values and rights for submissives…… i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected. i have the right to trust, providing I …
Reading Time: 3 minutes by Master Bishop If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created through …
Reading Time: 6 minutes Author: yielding slave to Master Stern © All articles are used with the permission of the author(s). One of the first things I learned as a new submissive to the BDSM scene was that the …
Reading Time: 2 minutes Author: Raven Shadowborne © 1997 Submission: (by definition) the act of submitting to the power of another A rather frightening prospect for most people. To give control of yourself to someone else. The act of …
Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jay Wiseman This is a copy of Jay Wiseman’s essay on dungeon monitoring. You can find this and several other informative articles by Mr. Wiseman at his site: JayWiseman.com. He is also the author …
Reading Time: 3 minutes SLAVE TRAINING by Master Len There are many different philosophies behind training and even more approaches to doing it. Here I shall try to explain things in both as general a way as I can, …
Reading Time: 7 minutes by Master Zen I have spent some time discussing with others in the lifestyle what makes a good dominant. What marks a true dominant from a player or wannabe? I have read every bit of …
Reading Time: 4 minutes Safety When Meeting For The First Time by Postat There is a tiny but very dangerous percentage of people out there which in all probability you will never meet. But you would be wise, in …
Reading Time: 3 minutes Author: Lady Tawn “I have only heard of it, and everything I have read seems to differ. What is it and how do I know I am there? Why would I want to go there? …
Reading Time: 5 minutes or, S/M Isn’t What It Used to Be by Keith L. Kendrick, R.N., C.H. In major American cities today small groups of otherwise relatively normal people get together to discuss, and to a lesser extent …
Reading Time: 3 minutes Author: rarejewel To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed. True submission is something that comes from deep within …
Reading Time: 3 minutes Copyright 04/2001 Ashtarot/BDSM Backroom http://www.bcwsd.com/backroom All rights reserved. Reprinted with permission. TPE – “May the Force be with you” TPE – Total Power Exchange is a term for an extreme form of a 24/7 D/s …
Reading Time: 8 minutes There are as many ways to do D/S as there are people, so you really need to know what your partner wants, doesn’t want, is comfortable with, is afraid of, and so forth. A lot …
Reading Time: 3 minutes Online relationships Online relationships may seem as though they are empty and lacking a great many things, which they are. There are however a great number of positive things about them, especially for someone who …
Reading Time: 16 minutes by Franklin Veaux All right, so what is “BDSM”? As Franklin Veaux reports…. BDSM PRINCIPALS: “BDSM” is an acronym of “B&D” (Bondage & Discipline), “D&S” (Dominance & Submission), and “S&M” (sadomasochism). “BDSM” refers to any or all …
Reading Time: 4 minutes Contributing Authors: Lady Green & Jay Wiseman © The following material is very closely based on the handout we give to the audience when we are invited to give an “SM For Beginners” presentation at …
Reading Time: < 1 minute [From a long-standing Wikipedia article worth reading] What Is BDSM? BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of …
