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Reading Time: < 1 minute BDSM Safety is of the UTMOST importance! Exciting though BDSM can be, it is certainly not without both physical and psychological risks. Because there is so often a sexual component you need to be aware …

Reading Time: 31 minutes By Jon This article originally was printed at sexuality.org and is used with permission. One of these ‘love it or leave it’ subjects when it comes to erotic power exchanges. Still, something you should know …

Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jahaan Martin This Article Originally Appeared At Lalechleague.org. Reprinted here with permission Egyptian Pharaoh Akhenaton, Roman Centurions and some Victorian society women have a striking connection with many mothers of today. The tie that …

Reading Time: 4 minutes by Tom A. Gordon This article originally was printed at public.diversity.org.uk – Reprinted With Permission BDSM Play Piercing A young man with whom I have played before, in some fairly typical SM activities, recently applied …

Reading Time: 2 minutes by Sir Viktor used with Permission from TiedMoments.com Note: We should not put our BDSM values on anyone in the vanilla world! Please do not humiliate anyone in a Vanilla setting such as a restaurant or …

Reading Time: 36 minutes Originally Printed at Gor.net.  Reprinted with Permission The Gorean philosophy is a philosophy espoused in the science fiction novels by John Norman. A number of fans of Norman’s work have attempted to live their lives …

Reading Time: 5 minutes by Rika at Tiedmoments.com My intent in writing this article is to share my views on turning the chastity fantasy into reality within the realm of Lifestyle D/s, as well as to detail my personal …

Reading Time: 5 minutes by Katharine Hawks (used by permission) from The Frugal Domme I hope something that we can always continue to benefit from is technical proficiency and know-how with the tools of our trade. One of mine …

Reading Time: 9 minutes From An Article On Sexuality.org CLOTHESPINS Definitions using an open clothespin diagram: hole spring | / ________________________________ \__n__0________________________/ leg __u__0________________________ /______________________________\ leg | | clamping area Wood versus plastic Wooden clothespins are a bit kinder …

Reading Time: 5 minutes Reprint by permission from Rika at TiedMoments.com For the past several months, I’ve hosted an IRC chat room entitled #MaleChastityDevices. Many opinions and fantasies are voiced there. Several misconceptions are shared as well. My intent in …

Reading Time: 14 minutes Copyright (c) 1997 by Conrad Hodson Originally appeared on Sexuality.org INTRODUCTION Canes have a deserved reputation as The Victorian Terror Weapon. To most submissives, they mean severe punishment; to sensation-seeking S/M bottoms, overload. If we …

Reading Time: 4 minutes Reprinted From Nerve.com BREATHLESS “When you find my body hanging . . . with a tight noose around my neck, do not look for a murderer. I have executed myself. I say execute rather than …

Reading Time: 5 minutes Reprint from Breath Control, Risk and Safety Some writers have argued that it’s impossible to do any sort of BC safely.  ay Wiseman, author of the SM101 reference book, has stoked controversy with his claims …

Reading Time: 32 minutes VIEWPOINTS CONCERNING EROTIC ASPHYXIATION Reprinted With Permission from Sexuality.org INTRODUCTION This artical contains four separate documents on the controversial subject of erotic asphyxiation. The first document, “The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play” by Jay …

Reading Time: 10 minutes An Intro Course In Basic Bondage Knots Article reprinted from Peter Suber’s Educational Site Overview & Quick Start I call these six hitches “exploding” knots because they untie easily and completely with one tug of …

Reading Time: 12 minutes by Jack Rinella Becoming an expert in bondage techniques takes experience. You’re not going to get from here to “there” in one easy step, but you will get there with practice, information, experience, and the …

Reading Time: 12 minutes Reprinted From From RopesForPleasure.com Rope For Pleasure is currently being developed to provide information and discussion on the rope bondage arts of David El. The Dance of Rope Bondage is an art form. The ropes …

Reading Time: 5 minutes From MedicalToys.com… This is a specialized version of bondage, in which the whole body, including the head (usually a breathing tube is used or the mouth/nose areas left open) is wrapped tightly. The materials used …

Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jack Rinella From Jack Rinella Leather Pages I sit at the computer feeling my dick beneath the terry cloth of my jogging pants, trying to figure out a title and opening paragraph for this …

Reading Time: 8 minutes Reprinted From Celebrate Male Submission Introduction According to Celebrate Male submission, “Cock and ball play, or CBT as it is more commonly called, can involve a variety of things. Play can be used to induce mild …