As a kinkster, you need to continually educate yourself to learn more kinky skills. Learning from others could be a good way to reach the goal. In this article, there are 3 stories shared by the users of the largest kinky dating app KinkD.

Story 1

I was introduced to the BDSM community through a nifty game called IMVU. I know, it’s weird, but hear me out. Due to me being a very solitude person and having my life consist of video games to break up the boredness of school, I took to IMVU like it was water and I was the thirstiest of people. I met a lot of really nice people using that game, including the couple that showed me the ways of BDSM and helped me through my journey to discover who I am. By the way, I should mention that I was 16 when I first learned about BDSM. I’ve been a submissive for almost 11 years, able to hide that side of myself from my family and friends easily. For the better part of 6 years, I dabbled in both Dominance and submission, finally resting on the fact that I’m definitely submissive.

I had 3 submissives in my time of discovery, each one realizing after only a few months that I’m definitely not Dominant, and that they could easily walk all over me. I have a very strong personality, but not when it comes to D/s. As soon as my Dom/me would tell me to do something, or let a little bit of strength leak into their voice, I’d melt and fall into place like the good little one I am. Recently finding someone who knows how to take the reins and do their role has been hard. I’m still very much seeking someone worthy of the title of Dominant, but I refuse to give up. And I refuse to give up that part of me for a totally vanilla relationship. I won’t do that to myself again.

Story 2

Everyone calls me Sox, it’s the nickname my first Dom gave me and the only thing I’d like to keep from him. My story could be passed off as another dumb naive girl who got in over her head but I turned it into my best asset. My first two years in Kink were incredible and terrible. I had the time of my life going to parties and putting on kink performances, staying out all weekend just playing and playing. Little did I realize that things were always so black and white, that sometimes I said no and it wasn’t heard.

During those two years I was learning an invaluable lesson and just wasn’t aware of it. The submissive always comes first. End of story. After that relationship fizzled and exploded to a terrible end where we parted ways with anger and hatred, I found a new group of people to call my Kink family. People who cared for me and made sure that everyone’s safety came first. I became a switch and found myself my own submissive and had a pretty good year of fun. Sadly I wasn’t quite ready for those responsibilities and we had to part ways.

The BDSM community in LA is one for the books, people seem to go that extra mile just to make sure everyone is have safe sane consensual fun. It doesn’t matter if you are female or male or something in between everyone is treated like family. I personally volunteer at an event for new people to the scene, taking my knowledge of terrible kink relationships and helping people find their way into this world. On the flip side I perform at an event that is mostly for people who don’t want the restricted rules of normal dungeon nights where our freak flags fly higher than ever. We do all sorts of “scary” stuff from being spanked with machetes pretending we’re in Friday the 13th or having someone’s lips sewn shut just because we can.

My Kink experience has been one hell of a roller coaster but I wouldn’t chance a single thing about it. Even though those first two years were harder than anyone could imagine I came out stronger and with the best kink family in the world. I love my friends with all my heart and wouldn’t trade them for anything.

Story 3

Like any normal evening my girlfriend got undressed but tonight was wearing her best underwear to impress, as I undressed she explained tonight will be different as she brought out handcuffs and restrained my hands behind my back excited for this I began to get hard but before I knew it had a cage fastened around my cock preventing this. I wondered what was going to happen and despite this was very excited.

Just as the excitement started another man walked in the room kissing my naked girlfriend, I shouted stop and wriggled but was tied down to the bed at this point and helpless, my girlfriend told me there were three things I had to do to get let out the cage.

  1. I would watch them have sex.
  2. I would suck his dick until he finishes
  3. I only had 2 minutes to make him finish.

Sex has never been the same since.

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