Reading Time: < 1 minute This part of the resources section is about the things we do. The term ‘BDSM’ brings together the activities of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (D/s), and Sado-Masochism (SM). Clearly not everyone interested in …
Reading Time: 2 minutes Author: Dennis Najee This topic came up on my social networking site yesterday and I thought I would pass along a few comments to you about it. Mentoring is a viable way for a new …
Reading Time: 5 minutes What’s with Switching, anyway? by Franklin Veaux “How singular is the thing called pleasure, and how curiously related to pain, which might be thought to be the opposite of it; For they are never present …
Reading Time: 3 minutes A very old, but tried and true set of values and rights for submissives…… i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected. i have the right to trust, providing I …
Reading Time: 3 minutes Know Exactly What You Want! by Cerina. Copyrighted by Submissive Loving. All rights reserved. Reprinted with Permission You are a submissive. You have read everything you could get your hands on and talked to anyone …
Reading Time: 6 minutes A Domina answers questions from a man new to submission: Q: I wanted to say first that I was much impressed by your site and the information there. Having discovered submissive tendencies I wanted to …
Reading Time: 3 minutes by Mistress Steel To Submit: …to overcome resistance to direction and yield one(self) to the will of another Submission is an action of personal strength. To overcome internal resistance the submissive must control their desire …
Reading Time: 3 minutes by Master Bishop If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created through …
Reading Time: 6 minutes Author: yielding slave to Master Stern © All articles are used with the permission of the author(s). One of the first things I learned as a new submissive to the BDSM scene was that the …
Reading Time: 2 minutes Author: Raven Shadowborne © 1997 Submission: (by definition) the act of submitting to the power of another A rather frightening prospect for most people. To give control of yourself to someone else. The act of …
Reading Time: 12 minutes This piece of writing “categorizes” the different type of bondage players that one is likely to find in the BDSM scene, and is written from the viewpoint of those who attend BDSM parties, or correspond …
Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jay Wiseman This is a copy of Jay Wiseman’s essay on dungeon monitoring. You can find this and several other informative articles by Mr. Wiseman at his site: JayWiseman.com. He is also the author …
Reading Time: 3 minutes SLAVE TRAINING by Master Len There are many different philosophies behind training and even more approaches to doing it. Here I shall try to explain things in both as general a way as I can, …
Reading Time: 2 minutes Author: By TorqueDom What Is Domination, and what make a Good Dominant Partner? Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He …
Reading Time: 7 minutes by Master Zen I have spent some time discussing with others in the lifestyle what makes a good dominant. What marks a true dominant from a player or wannabe? I have read every bit of …
Reading Time: 7 minutes Author: TautLine © 2000 – used with permission THE BEGINNING… First, You should take a serious look at yourself. What is it about BDSM that You find appealing? Do You wish a 24/7 relationship; taking …
Reading Time: 7 minutes Levels of Dominance Vary. How can you tell if a woman is dominant? Dear Akasha: Hey, thanks for writing back…I wanted to know what advice you would have on how I would find out if …
Reading Time: 7 minutes From the soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm FAQ Is BDSM degrading or abusive? Were most SM people abused? Often people approach SM with nothing but negative stereotypes in their mind. The will-less slave dominated by the overbearing thoughtless master. …
Reading Time: 2 minutes To many people all bdsm is abusive, but the fundamental difference between bdsm and abuse is consensuality. Abuse is only present where informed consent is absent. D/s relationships may involve deep levels of caring and …
Reading Time: 5 minutes by Jack Rinella On preparing to speak in Springfield, MO this weekend I posted a request for questions to their newsgroup and a reader submitted a question about “What advice would you give someone who is …
