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Reading Time: 3 minutes Compared to the vulnerability that appears in regular, vanilla relationships, this term gets a whole other meaning in BDSM

Reading Time: 2 minutes Before actually committing a sexual S&M act, one must know how to properly go through foreplay first. In that name, here are our picks for the top 12 methods of preparing for an sadomasochistic session with your partner.

Reading Time: 2 minutes There is a thin line between hot BDSM and emotional (and physical) abuse. That being said, we’re going to do our best and try to determine the point where kinkiness stops and violence begins.

Reading Time: 2 minutes There’s an entire subculture formed around leather and it mostly about dressing/fashion styles and sexual activities that include leather garbs such as pants, jackets, vests, etc.

Reading Time: 2 minutes Spanking has seemingly been around since the dawn of time, however, it didn’t always bare the same connotations as it does today.

Reading Time: 2 minutes In the sea of online dating profiles, it’s definitely difficult to stand out and catch the right person’s eye. At the same time, there are a few tips we’d like to share with you today if you’re looking to create a killer BDSM profile.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Nipple Torture – Get ready subby guys: you lot who like me to tease and torture you, because today we’re going to talk about your nipples. Those cute, tiny, unprepossessing lumps of flesh that sit on your chest – otherwise useless but for the fact that I can use them to elicit your moans and squeals.

Reading Time: 2 minutes I love tickle torture: it’s a unique dynamic that combines power and helplessness, with the added bonus that it can have someone begging for mercy in minutes.

Reading Time: 2 minutes by Beyond Delights Explorations will produce more excitement and thrill if you know exactly what you put in your body. Like those complicated ingredients in the packaging labels of your food, you should also wonder …

Reading Time: 2 minutes There are many ways to spice up life in the bedroom, from introducing sex toys to trying sexual role play games. There are a variety of options for you and your partner to try, and …

Reading Time: 3 minutes 5 BDSM Principles That Should Rule Your Relationship. BDSM has become something of a hot topic in pop culture recently, but longtime practitioners know it’s far more than just a fad. It’s a lifestyle for …

Reading Time: 2 minutes Editor note: This article is a bit off the beaten path for BDSMCafe, but is useful information about an alternative way to buy porn, so we’re posting it up for you!

Reading Time: 3 minutes Bukkake (most commonly, the practice of a group of men ejaculating on a woman) is an ancient Japanese tradition, its true origins lost to the sands of time. There are two conflicting versions of the origin of Bukkake. Let’s take a look at both…

Reading Time: 4 minutes As BDSM continued to grow in underground popularity starting in the 1960’s, film directors took note of this and began creating Bondage movies for theatrical release in “Blue Cinemas” around the US and Europe.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Picking the right location is key, especially if you want to relax and enjoy yourself. Find a place that has minimal lighting, limited foot traffic, and an easy escape route should you inadvertently find yourself putting on a live sex show for unsuspecting passersby.

Reading Time: 2 minutes For many years, lifestyle BDSM couples and groups have built elaborate dungeons and play spaces, created complex furniture and rigging, and invested in high quality gear and toys. In recent years, there has been a trend of more and more BDSM couples starting their own film production studios, and doing scenes for professional film companies. This has resulted in a deeper visual texture in many BDSM movies which capture the energy and chemistry with higher production values.

Reading Time: 3 minutes Some of the earliest references to BDSM date back as far as 2250 B.C. The academic historian and archaeologist Anne Nomis identified BDSM in ancient Sumerian texts about rituals to the Goddess Inanna. Nomis points to ancient writings such as the Hymn to Inanna, which mentions rituals of domination, cross-dressing, altered states of consciousness, punishment, moaning, and ecstasy.

Reading Time: 2 minutes While venturing into emotional hell for a romp with an ex or taking home a creeper who likes bitch drinks and Nickleback sounds tempting, sex dating sites can offer you the pleasure you’re looking for without all the drama.

Reading Time: 2 minutes Fear not, kinksters! A new generation of live fetish cams are now on the scene, offering lifestyle bdsm and fetish performers that are able and willing to do everything from age play, to self-bondage, to pretty much everything else you could ever imagine.

Reading Time: 2 minutes You can get cardboard VR headsets for a few dollars, but for $30 you can get a pretty good quality plastic one on Amazon